The Church Is Not Just a Family, It's a Civil Club

I think people are afraid that if they challenge your brother, it's going to lead to their, you know, falling out of the relationship. And that's always a potential risk. But I think the bigger thing, especially if you do this with alone, even if they disagree with you, the fact that you went to them and you had the respect for them to approach them and be honest with them, I don't think you lose. It's very hard to lose in that situation.