i'm imagining that they asked themselves when they were growing up, why are my parents this way? Why can't they be different? Like to jull, ask yourselves that question. So what was, i'm curious. You don't have to have the right answer. I really want to know though, what was the answer that you came up with? It doesn't have to be rational or justifiable or defensible. And then the why, a lot of it, i think, comes down to just existentialism a little bit., where, like, i think people want their offspring to do well.