Matelen: I think we go through periods in life where we emphasize one over the other. When i am learning, i really find it hard to artificially restrict options when i know that there are more out there. There should be that reflexi f back loop. You just, you can't have everything open all the time. And then life will naturally present the opportunities for you to maintain that openness and curiosity, explore. Ya, you don't have to define yourself as being able to navigate society welive in enough safely or effectively. That's not a good way of living your life. But  there isn't a function for people to exploit as much for people to commit themselves