This chapter explores the concept of the 'liking gap' and how it persists even after becoming familiar with someone. It discusses a study on college roommates and how the liking gap persisted for months. Furthermore, it examines the development of the liking gap in children and how it seems to start around the age when they become aware that others are watching and judging them. The chapter also delves into the challenges of talking to strangers in public and the uncertainty and complexities that arise in such interactions.
Are you the kind of person who loves chatting to strangers? Like people in cafes, parks or the train?
Or does the thought of small talk make you cringe?
On All in the Mind this week, we cover a growing body of research on how talking to strangers can make you feel happier, more connected to your community and less lonely.