The Cost of Coping With Trauma

The way that we like produce boys is I would argue like quite abusive in and of itself. So it doesn't surprise me that a lot of people are like dissociating from their relationality and their empathy, even like masculinity as a social construct. And so, and I think where where people go when they like here saying things like this, is they just think we're making excuses. We're justifying it. But I'm not justifying it. I'm not making an excuse. I'm living in reality where there's tons of people who are fucked up for tons of reasons who are treating each other in screwed-up ways. My job as a social actor is to support people and