How Would You Quit Being a Jew?

"I grew up in a town that had a large Jewish community. There's a very little bit of discrimination against Jewish people in it there, but I certainly don't feel like oppressed or anything," she says. "My social life was built around it too at the time when I was leaving it." For those who are non-religious, how would you quit? It sounds almost like what some friends of mine who have come out of the closet say of like, kind of isolate yourself, cut yourself off and then have to find a community of people who identify with this thing that has sort of brandedYou an outsider.