
Ep 146: Love Reset: For when reactivity and oversensitivity takeover healthy relationships
Help Me Be Me
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How to Deal With Pressure When Your Partner Cannot Handle It on Their Own
A lot of what fights are are pressure each person trying to figure out a way to release pressure which brings me to part two the why well we handle the feelings of our partner when that partner cannot handle them on their own or that partner cannot tolerate the feeling. If your partner is very insecure they might make you act out the reinstatement of security so for example they might push you to make you declare overtly that you cannot live without them or you fear not being with them. All this stuff is happening totally unconsciously so just want you to take a mental note recognize if this is something you can see in yourself like if you happen to do this and if it does happen happen it's the
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