Sonsberygod: When people don't acknowledge reality, and one person pretends that everything is ok, it's almost like the burning of this reality is shared between you and your mam. Sometimes when a child grows up with an overly reassuring parent, what they actually learn how to do is doubt,. It's almostlike the opposite of copium, cause your mam is like, you know, copium. So so that's just something for you to kind of think about. I'mgong, actually, i feel a lot more relief. And i think that this tol hell me acknowledge the the comfrt that is in my mind between trusting myself and the process