I think that's accurate because we've joked before about how there's not probably that many archetypes that I could have ended up with. "My archetype of like when people say what's your type, I would say that mine is probably a lot broader than maybe someone else's" If you had never left their hometown, was not really willing to do that, really didn't like people who weren't like them. That would be really hard for me and so I don't think it would work for me as a life partner. It comes down to the values of the person and not exactly how they look or operate in the world.