You Used to Blame Yourself for Relationships Going Wrong

I used to blame myself for all of the relationships in my life going wrong until I realized that, yeah, it takes two to tango. In almost every relationship, friendships, romance, blood, some, the other person has to be a participant in the dance just as much as you are participating in the dance. You can really yearn for someone to do the right thing, and the hardest part is even if you set up the entire environment for them to do so, unless they choose it for themselves, it's just not going to happen.