The Dynamics of Growth in Committed Relationships

In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how to communicate their needs, set boundaries, and grow closer to their partner without losing themselves in the process.

Topics Covered:

• What actually changes when you become parents, and how to prepare for it.

• Why resentment builds when your needs go unspoken.

• Dr. Cutlip’s “Ultimate Compliment Formula” for deeper emotional connection.

• How to love someone in the way they need to be loved (even if it doesn’t come naturally).

• What the “mental load” is and why it’s a hidden relationship-killer.

• How to talk about imbalance in a relationship without triggering defensiveness.

• The difference between compromise and losing yourself in a relationship.

• How to bring up your needs without guilt.

• What makes someone “relationship ready” in dating.

• How individualism is quietly undermining commitment culture.

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Morgan Cutlip’s book: A Better Share – Buy your copy here

• Join Matthew’s 30-Day Confidence Challenge – MHChallenge.com

• Try Matthew AI (ask any relationship question) – AskMH.com

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