Are You a Competitive Athlete and Want to Win?

Glen, you've written about how women are taught that the deep underlying belief about what we want is that if what we want hurts people, it must be bad and dangerous. I was wondering if that notion flies in the face of being a competitive athlete, demanding the ball and wanting to win? Does that ever come into conflict with wanting to be generous, or wanting to give other people the opportunity to do well? Do you ever feel that you needt share that tit's a really, really important question, because the answer is both right? The answer is, both things can be true at the same time.