For those of people who don't really have that personal experience of an abuse, of a painful abuse, in the church, let me offer a metaphorn. It's an extended metaphor, just toto help them get their heads around and to understand why this look to jesus, don't look to the church, thing is at once true and also rings really hollow and false. So nowtis its can be a extended metaphor. Got time this. I got time. All right. You got nothing but time and go for i. Oh, yodaso. Here's the metaphor. Imagine you hear of this amazing french restaurant with this new chef owner, who you've heard