Sex Myths
Betwixt The Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society
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Spontaneous Desire
The idea of spontaneous desire is based on the central tendency of cisgender men. Spontaneous desire emerges in anticipation of pleasure. Some people have what's called responsive desire, where they experience desire in response to pleasure. If you are having fun at the party, you are doing it right. And my thing is there's no amount of being like horny to go to the party that if you find a party doesn't guarantee that the party you find is going to be something that you have any fun at.
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