A lot of times in friend groups, crack behavior gets propagated because it isn't explicitly named. So i think that if you've screwed up and you were an ass like, so this is where i think that you should have a conversation with your friends about your behaviour. And then essentially ask your friends to lay out what you should expect. If you all sort of feel like because of that, there is like, i'm always going to be kind of a second class citizen in this friend group. I just want to know, is that what i should expect? Or is this the kind of thing where ability to spend time with youall always depends on the comfort of a third person who