Parenting - Is Your Child's Feelings Predicting Your Choices?

Ri was a swim instructor, so i'm like, you got to just don't give em the floatis. It gives them a false sense of buoyancy, and then they don't when it's time to learn, they don't want to. So very problematic, not building resilent, yes. And i know we're trying to all be sensitive parents. And we want to be, you know, creating secure attachments. Well, not sens no, alteter. These parents, these parents, i think, are trying to be sensitive to their kid's feelings and tryi to, trying to respect their kid’s feelings. But i you don't wants our feelings