How Do You Deal With Unfairness?

This particular injured place in us is actually it hurts so much that we protect ourselves from it so thoroughly. More than any other part of the chart when I start to describe it to people based on what I see they just look at me like a deer and headlights. When somebody 100% hey that's your pain you're not even objecting to it just like blank you like that's just I don't know really the work. If we just spend time with it that shell will crack and then we get down into it and then I get to see how spectacularly painful it is.