The Importance of Emotional and Familial Connections

Why are we not striving for the emotional and familial connections that bring us back to a commons of loving each other first why look at these people whoever they are. Why is it that their long-term flourishing is so high? i'm also not trying to sound widely condescending or simplistic like everyone in Costa Rica is happening no that's not my pointMy point is is that where you have metrics whether they're either written down or they're understood as part of a tradition that this is what brings long-term joy and this is the priority.