
Ep 36 — Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt PhD — Imago Relationship Therapy
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Imago - The Selection Process
Psychologists found that babies construct unconsciously images of their parents during caretaking process. When we are grown, grown up, in our late teens and early twenties, this part of the brain is looking for the thing that it didn't get in childhood with an adult partner. So if you're similar to the caretaker with whom i had the biggest difficulty, i will fall in love with you. And when i see you, igowo, there she is, all things bright and beautiful. O, creatures great and small,. And i'll move across the crowded room and say hi. That's because i now see somebody who's similar to the Caretaker with whom I did not get my
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