
Episode 220: The Ever-Present Confusion of Our Early 20s
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
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The Measure of Success Can't Be Whether or Not I Want This Person, Right?
"The want for this person isn't going to go away immediately just because you've blocked," she says. "Your measure of success can't be whether or not I want this person, right? Because the measure of success is how do I acknowledge the fact that this want is not going to go down anytime soon?" She adds: "We need to find a way to strengthen the muscle within us that is okay with the not knowing."
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