How Can I Get Advice on a Long Term Relationship?

i'm dealing with a bit of a conundrum, and was hoping that you both would be able to provide some sound advice. I've never met their partner back home, but i'm sure they'd be devastated to find out that this happened. Equally, i don't think she's going to tell him, and from when we've spoken, seems very content with their never finding out and things carrying on. What does one do when you witness that? Big love? Re, i'm currently on a study abroad programme with my university. If i didn't get to mans university, wouln't hve met you. Oh, that's tru. That was the only mon