If you have a routine, it can really help to alleviate some of what feels like just chaos with raising children. But i also believe in agility. If i'm following a routine three out of five days, i would celebrate that as a win. For instance, i really value my sleep. And so then came an important thing for my kids. I didn't want them to have a challenge with this throughout their lives. So i wanted to have as much routine around that so that i could hopefully get sleep. Am one of the books that worked for me was healthy sleep habit's happy child. It was it. Made sense to me. The list is probably endless, but you can't