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198: Why We Become "Too Nice" When We Like Someone (And What To Do About It)

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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Finding Real Love Is a Purity

"When we're on our own and we want to find love, there's a purity to the goal," she says. "But what happens is when we find someone we think is great, very quickly, it's almost as if our ego co-ops that goal." The only way to arrive at a place of knowing that you have real love by those definitions is to do all of the things we're afraid to do When we like someone a lot, he writes.

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