Are There Cases Where God Allows You to Choose Your Own Vocation?

Matthew davis says, hi father. I've been thinking a lot about entering the seminery. But i also don't want to have to give up the possibility of in a family. Are there cases where god allows one to choose their own vocation? Am ari: Ye, do whatever. Either both are good. The lord gives you what you need to make solid, free choices and abide by the consequences thereof.