The Power of Listening to Your Partner

Dr. Lisa Kogan: We've all been there, right? You have a hundred and ninety seven reasons why you are right and why your partner is wrong. And so we put all of our energy into explaining to them why we're right and they are wrong. It may involve charts, graphs, pictures, outside sources,. scientific journal articles, exhibit A; it turns into a campaign. She says both people dig in deeper and over time it starts to feel increasingly hopeless for anyone.