
Episode 44: Adult Autism: Neurodivergent Insights [featuring Megan Neff]
All Things Private Practice Podcast
I'm Autistic, and I Just Can't Take It In
Soh: I feel like iam living behind pexy glass, and i just can't get into my experience. So i go para sympathetic mode if i'm in a room or more than probably three or four people. Soh: For me, it's like i'm going to reach for unhealthy cophing skales to be able to be here.
I was diagnosed as Autistic at 35 years old. Adult Autism Diagnosis is becoming increasingly more common as we learn more about it and have more advocacy and awareness around it.
Adult Autism Diagnosis — How many of us have been overlooked, misunderstood, and searching for lifelong answers?
Dr. Megan Neff and I speak about our own experiences as autistic people and therapists, and how to build lives that work for us. We are hoping that people listening are able to feel validation, support, and acceptance.
Some of the things that we talk about:
- Special Interests (my Garfield and beanie baby collection)
- Our own experiences as autistic adults, mental health therapists, and entrepreneurs
- Our own "ah-ha" moments
- Misdiagnosis and underdiagnosis
- Liberation and Grief behind diagnosis and understanding
- "I'm around people I love but I just can't take it in."
- "I can't enjoy things that are supposed to be enjoyable." – Megan
- The paradox of masking — liberation vs. torturous exhaustion
More about Megan:
Dr. Megan Anna Neff has a doctorate in clinical psychology and is currently a psychology resident in private practice where she specializes in working with neurodivergent adults and provides neurodivergent affirming assessments. They are a parent to two neurodivergent children and in an inter-neuro partnership. She is a late-in-life diagnosed autistic-ADHDer who is passionate about educating the mental health field on non-stereotypical presentations of autism and ADHD.
Neff has co-authored two books, published in several peer-reviewed psychological journals and serves as a peer-reviewer for APA journals. She has a passion for research and for translating research into visualizations. You can also find their work on Instagram (@Neurodivergent_Insights) where they turn peer-reviewed academic articles into visual pixels one post at a time.
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Mentioned in this episode:
Resilient Mind Counseling
It's Patrick. Some of you may know that I own a group therapy practice in North Carolina, Resilient Mind Counseling. We specialize in supporting the Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, and Black, Brown, and Asian communities online and across North Carolina. We also have limited in-person openings at our offices in Asheville and Cary. We really love working with clients who are coming to terms with both Autism and ADHD discoveries later in life or questioning, as well as the intersections of race, gender, identity, and orientation. All of our therapists have lived experience and identify as AuDHD, Autistic, or ADHD. Our team of affirming therapists offers a safe, anti-racist, anti-oppressive, inclusive, and accessible space where you can show up exactly as you are—no masking, no judgment, and no need to make eye contact, just real connection and healing. We accept most commercial insurances like Blue Cross Blue Shield, United, Aetna, and Med Cost, as well as self-pay options. We currently have openings for new clients. Visit our website at resilientmindcounseling.com. You can also text or call our HIPAA-compliant phone line at (828) 515-1246, or email us at scheduling@resilientmindcounseling.com.


