264 — Gratitude for Skeptics: What It Is, Why It Works, and How to Avoid Toxic Positivity
Mentally Stronger with Therapist Amy Morin
Negativity bias and why gratitude helps
Amy describes the brain's negativity bias and how intentionally shifting focus interrupts rumination and anxiety loops.
Do you ever feel like gratitude is overrated? Or do you get angry at the thought of being grateful when you're going through a tough time? If gratitude feels fake, forced, or like you're denying reality, you are not the problem. The method is.
Gratitude isn't about pretending everything is okay. It's a science-backed mental strength tool, and today we’re going to make it practical and useful, even for the biggest skeptics. You can learn how to practice it without it feeling like a chore or crossing over into toxic positivity.
Some of the things I share are:
- How understanding the real purpose of gratitude can help you retrain your mind — and change what you focus on every day.
- How uncovering your brain’s natural negativity bias can unlock the power of gratitude — even if you’re a skeptic.
- Surprising micro-practices you can try in just 60 seconds — and why these tiny shifts can create real change, no matter how busy or skeptical you are.
- Ways to let gratitude exist right alongside pain — and how it can actually help you weather your hardest moments.
- How to recognize the hidden risks of toxic positivity — and what you can do to protect yourself from it while still finding genuine gratitude.
- How adding just one word to your self-talk can completely change the way you see your challenges.
- Easy ways to weave gratitude into your routine without piling on extra tasks or taking up more of your day.
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