It's easy to delight in people who are delightful. But how do you shift gears a little bit with somebody who's being belligerent? I'll give you an example, maybe it'll make it easier. My mam texted me and said that someone she knew had a charity,. And i'm like, full upper case fu like, fock off. It seems like maybe we need to give ourselves time and patience before we can have that affection. That's what affection it all is.