The Importance of Being Secure in 30 Years

When a child is secure in 30 years, if you follow the child into adult life, that child has an extremely high chance of not having any significant psychiatric disorders or substance abuse. They tend to be far happier in their jobs and they also tend to live lives that they are farming fulfilled. Now if a child doesn't feel all the time that the caregivers available, sometimes when the caregiver is available, the child feels safe and secure. That child very often will become what's known as anxious or preoccupied in adult life. The parent isn't available, maybe goes off to work, suddenly for long hours,. Maybe has other children to attend to, maybe just is only sporadically available