The Most Common Reason Couples Have Problems With Sex in Their Relationship?

In intimacy, by its very nature, has to do with trust. By trusting that other partner, we are giving up some of our control. And so many people have childhoods that were out of control that they become controlling adults as a compensation. In relationship, when we're experiencing the ultimate out of control, which is an orgism, or even the fore play leading to that orgaism, many times it's too much for us to cope with. That fear of intimacy is one of what i would consider one of the largest problems in sexual disfunction, or rectile disfunction, a female problems with sexuality.