Is Everything a Response to Pain?

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Buddhism's been a big part of my life. I'm not sure i agree with it, but before i go disagreeing with something, i'd want to know how to learn more about it. The way the brain gets us to act and do anything, even to pursue pleasure, is not about what feels good. It's about what felt good. How does that work? The way our reward system works is by having a memory of a past experience that felt good. And then what the brain does is cause us this itch, this desire, this craving to feel that again. That doesn't mean that the way we should incentivise and motivate people is by punishing them and

Nir Eyal is an author whose writing on technology, psychology, and business has appeared in the Harvard Business Review, The Atlantic, Psychology Today, and many other renowned publications. Previously, he taught as a Lecturer in Marketing at the Stanford Graduate School of Business and Design School. In this episode, Nir and Eric discuss his new book, Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life.

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In This Interview, Nir Eyal and I discuss Becoming Indistractable and…

His book, Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life
How what we pay attention to determines our quality of life
The importance of being in control of how you spend your time and attention in life
When it comes to being distracted, there are the blamers, the shamers, and the claimers
That the root cause of distraction is uncomfortable sensations
Time management is pain management
How you can’t stop emotions but you can respond to them
The 4 key steps of becoming indistractable
Traction and Dis-traction
How anything can become a distraction
That you can’t call something a distraction unless you know what you are distracted from
The tyranny of the to-do list
Deciding with intent when you’re going to do something
Timeboxing
Mastering our internal triggers: Learning to work with our uncomfortable emotions
The 3 reasons we get distracted
The antidote to impulsive behavior
Using an identity to help us become indistractable

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