How to Choose the Right Thing

Bob Greene: If you just view all of these choices in isolation and, well, I'm just not going to, I'll figure out a way to make this work. He says it really comes down to thinking about who you want to be and what sort of legacy you want to leave. Greene: Just ask the question frequently, every 90 days,  to right the wrongs. The idea of letting other people down or letting yourself down by doing everything at once goes away quickly too.