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66. Dating in our 20’s - why we date the wrong people

The Psychology of your 20s

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I've Been in Like Four Situations in the Past and I'm Getting Better at Them Now.

"I was like I just need this like this is just like the most temporarily nourishing thing I could find," she says. "Then you wake up the next day and you're like oh I feel so terrible." The actress has been in four situationships, including one with her ex-boyfriend who said he didn't really want anything to do with her after they broke up. She's now getting better at taking care of herself on a ship.

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yeah I was like I just need this like this is just like the most temporarily nourishing thing I could find it was like it was like junk food yeah it's so good and like yum like this is all I've ever wanted and then like you wake up the next day and you're like oh I feel so terrible and like that insecurity is still there especially when it's like it doesn't just become about whether they find you attractive it's about whether they can love you and then then they don't love you and then that's an even bigger insecurity like oh it's like yeah sure I'm like I'm fuckable and I'm attractive but am I lovable yeah no like you don't feel that way and then you end up in situationships which is I think my bread and butter honestly I I've been in like four in the past yeah you're in a half and old but I'm better I'm getting better at them now like the last one I was like he was like I don't really want anything and I was like great see you later good for you I was like I was like not not doing this again yeah and then it actually was really great because after like a couple weeks I had that realization where I was like whoa like this man really didn't put in any effort he was actually not that nice to me he like doesn't really do anything with this life like I would be like tell me like remember I asked him on one about first day it's I was like what's the thing you're most passionate about yeah and he couldn't answer the question and he was like my family and I was like yeah everyone's passionate about their family like it's called love yeah like I was

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