What's the Difference Between Men and Boys?

i've struggled with that for most of my life. So i decided to have a ceremony for him, bring him into manhood. He's there to be a leader on the team, not just somebody who receives food. In the rest of his trajectory is changed. I mayas obvious bo some differences between men and women. Some of the greatest men have been atheists based on these things. And churches are filled with males who ware not men.