The Importance of Being Kind and Kind

We are told that there's someone special for all of us out there aren't we. Are there any things we can do to optimize our chances and maximize our positive decision making? Varen is their love at first sight because if you really think I really like that person does that stick or do you then quite rapidly reevaluate your relationship with that person if you change your mind. To love someone requires knowledge of that person and respect and care for that person which is very difficult to show and to engender at first sight.