i think i wanted to summarize one time here, that that deep inner desire to live with meaning can only be achieved through interpersonal communication. Cause in most of the literature that has been written about how to find meaning, to design your life around meaning, it tilts towards individual examination and  that isn't going to work. I don't fully understand why it doesn't work, but my experience is that all meaning really is discovered in this interplay between that's where it happens. Between us always means relational it always means inter personal communication on steroids. Because what we're trying to do is to hold meaning and purpose, identity and integrity for one another. And that's a task worthy