I'm Getting Curious, What Does That Feel Like in You?

I want to be a better listener. I want to listen to learn from people, instead of just jumping to problem solving. And then what fom me, it's about getting curious. When i'm trying to solve something, i lose the person i'm talking to,. I make a kind of object of the problem. So how can we be with the human that we're with and ask questions like, you know what, what was for you? How does this challenge your sense of yourselfit? How does this shape who you think you are becoming? Ask some deeper questions that help illuminate the human that you're with....