The Importance of Privacy in Marriage

Most of the time I would unfollow women on his phone myself. But it wasn't like, I never felt bad about going into my husband's phone because I go into his phone so much that I'll put his passcode into my phone trying to log into my phone. He could just look through your text at any moment. DM's on Instagram. You're just making a future secret for yourself. So it's just like a negative contribution to a future self but how do you have few people have the ability to have that restraint?