One of the hardest places to be is when you can't let go of that desire to change your gaslighters mind. Most of the time in gaslighting relationships, if you can't get him to agree, then you're going to agree. The urge to merge a single perspective? It's to merge into a single perspective. We must have this one perspective. Yeah. I mean, we're going to hold hands and look at the world together. We're going to held hands and be joined in the way we think about things.
What is gaslighting REALLY and what isn’t?
Plus, how to know if you’re in a relationship with a gaslighter, the three types of gaslighters, and how to break free from a gaslighter and reclaim yourself.
About Dr. Stern:
Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.
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