What Was Your Greatest Suffering and What Wisdom Did You Gain From It?

I lost my internal compass in Selma. I remember very clearly being in a relationship and saying, not only do you not belong here, I don't have to be here. And every time that happens, it takes so long to get back. So I mean, I'm lost it if you have lost it for men. You know what heartbreak looks like. I know what struggle and pain looks like in a relationship. If this doesn't turn out right and it turns into heartbreak, at least I know I'll survive.