Most relationships have an aspect of trying to repair a previous childhood drama imbedded them, says de Bauton. "This is why many relationships are incredibly conflictual" There are some similarities between chloe and kerston raby's wife in the course of love - they both bite their nails. 'We do tend to fall for people who are remarkably similar in lots of ways'
Debbie talks to Alain de Botton about love and sex.