You Can't Predict What You Want

Sally Kohn: I think in common self-help or in society, people think that women need to get everything they want and men have to limit their desire for sexual variety. She says it's much better to just try and tell somebody exactly what you want and expect that they can follow suit later on rather than trying to anticipate what you want through subtle cues. "It obviously feels better if somebody anticipates what you want because that means that there must be thinking a lot about you"