silicone is great for anal sex. When it comes to vulva vagina, looking at water based lubes, those will try out for faster. Some people have mini fridges in their bedroom and find a chilled lube to be like a rousing because that's a new sensation,. Like some people bring ice cubes in like you can have chilled lube. Yeah. What about what about oil based? So oil based not so good for condoms. All right. coconut oil is the most common used ones that are made for the vulva. I have patients who swear by it. The only problem that I say other than the condoms is the sheets. It's going to stain your sheets,