Is There Something Wrong With My Mother?

I think for a long time i saw felt like there must be something wrong with me, as the one not geting this uit. That is very painful. Do yo any idea why your mam was more able to see what was going on with your sister and her pain than she has been able to see yours? I don't know. She was in a lot of financial distress when she was a simble parent. She was looking after her ex husband when he was in the depths of alcoholism in a very involved way. The just wasn't space, and she couldn't face it. that was the sense i got, was, don't you dare give me anything else to worry