Do You Want a Blind in the Bathroom?

You only feel like a failure if you have some sort of thought attached to him doing it. He does the thing, he orders the blind, let's say. And you can either have the thought, i'm so glad i have a partner who just feels like finishing it,. Or you could have the thought like, i'm glad he took care of it, now he can stop bugging me about it. I i think i could choose those of the three. Never thought of choosing for nos yet.