Is this relationship heading in a direction that's for real or not? That's the question. We need to remember where the bar is, so that we can look at everything through a higher standard. There are plenty of nice, funny, reliable people in life. You deserve those things, but that is the bare minimum. The bar is that low. And i want to give you a higher standard question that i always ask myself. I think it's funny if some one asks me a question that i'm not equipped to answer. But in this case, i think i can actually equip you to answer this question in some way.