How to Talk to Your Partner About a Bill

i'm trying now more even in conversation to be like give me two seconds give me a minute. i think they the like awareness is a great first step and just maybe try maybe even practice with a friend or something who is maybe a little bit more sensitive or emotionally in tune on how to discuss it because you're not talking about anything on the reason of it we just don't want to be hurtful which i understand and respect right. I was actually gonna um offer that same suggestion of like writing it out and sending it to your most empathetic friend and being like how does this sound as far as like a realistic conversation that needs to happen but also i'm genuinely not trying to be