Are we living in illusion here? Are we really do we have the free will that we think we have to molt ourselves, or we just tell u ourselves a story after the fact. So my question is, am i really that different from the bird? I mean, i think i am. And and i wrote a book about decision makingd and you'v wrote written a book about control and grit. And you teach a class. Is it possible to ask the question not only how do i want to respond but how do i respond? You know, when a friend really needs me in the future, unlike a crow or a cat, i can say i deeply regret missing those two