i wonder if, like the helt, what i'm thinking, let's take you and me out of it. What is the healthiest way to have a family and a household? Is it a family that never fights? Cause that's definitely what i always thought it was. And we've both talked about this sometimes with lila will be like, le, and we actually feel bad tow were like, ah ike, i got to my exasperated tone. We s on like, such candy u ain't i? Now we are.