How to Get Grandparents on Our Same Page

I would always encourage starting with a sleep under where they get to go over for the play date and stay way later than they're supposed to. If that goes well then you can go ahead and try a sleepover for some kids They can do a kindergarten sleepover playdate and for other kids it takes until they're nine years old You really have to encourage your kids to listen to the messages that they're giving themselves so that they don't make too big of a deal of it. I just cringe and definitely get triggered when i hear them say things like don't be sad or you want to do x like a big boy right or or  they don't seem interested or willing to